Your partner can genuinely adore you. Men aren’t complicated at all; they are the easiest beings I’ve ever come across. No one makes my life smoother than my partner.
Here are the secrets to winning over a man’s heart. Understand him, and you’ll achieve anything you desire.
1. EMBRACE HIS IDENTITY: Remember, he is a MAN, not a woman, so respect him as such.
2. SHOW APPRECIATION: Men thrive on admiration. Many frustrated men I’ve seen lack appreciation from their partners. Compliment his appearance, career, skills, intelligence, success, and if married, his abilities in the bedroom (but a single woman should refrain from such knowledge).
3. OFFER PRAISE: Men enjoy being acknowledged. Whether he seals a business deal, excels at work, or handles a minor household task, let him know he’s your hero. Praise him genuinely, but avoid excessive flattery as it can be off-putting.
4. SHOW RESPECT: I have received numerous favors and opportunities from men just by addressing them with respect and using “sir” when appropriate.
5. BE AUTHENTIC: Men dislike false pretenses. If you’re an extrovert, embrace that; if you’re an introvert, own it. Don’t pretend to excel at things you dislike.
6. LET HIM BE HIMSELF: A man is willing to go the extra mile for a woman who brings him peace.
7. YES, HE WILL NOTICE: Men find attractive women appealing and may glance at them. This doesn’t necessarily mean he’ll pursue them. Let him be a man without guilt; it’s perfectly natural.
8. PROVIDE INTIMATE CONNECTION: Your husband deeply desires physical affection and may feel less masculine if you are passive. His greatest joy in bed comes from seeing you enjoy the moment. Don’t be afraid to express your pleasure.
9. PRAY FOR HIM: My husband becomes vulnerable when he knows I’m praying for him. It encourages him to trust me completely.
10. ONLY ASSIST WITH FINANCES IF HE REQUESTS: A true man doesn’t want a woman spending all her money on him. He wants the pleasure of providing for you.
11. ALLOW HIM TO GIVE: If he wishes to treat you, let him; it’s his choice.
12. LOVE HIS MOTHER: Good men value their mothers greatly. Show her love just like he does and support him in caring for her.
13. CREATE DISTANCE: If you’re dating, hold off on intimacy. Make it clear that you’re a precious gem worth waiting for. I’m not suggesting you engage with those who constantly seek lovemaking; focus on real men who appreciate a woman’s worth. Never settle for less during dating.
14. SERVE TASTY MEALS: Men enjoy a satisfying meal. Delight him with his favorite dishes served hot and at the right time. If you can draw him away from takeout, you’ll have his heart forever.