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Consider these questions before making a lifelong commitment. Once you marry him, your future is locked in! No more inquiries, just acceptance!
1. IS HE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN? There are many who claim to be born again, even among those who aren’t sincere. Observe his behavior and beliefs. “You will recognize them by their actions.”
2. WHAT CHURCH DOES HE GO TO? His church’s teachings will influence his actions and decisions. If you disagree with his church, it might be best to part ways.
3. WHAT ARE HIS GOALS? Understanding his aspirations will help you support him in achieving his future. If he lacks vision, he may not be ready for a wife. Your life is far too valuable to waste on someone without direction.
4. DOES HE HAVE AN EX-PARTNER? Learn the reasons for their breakup; you don’t want history to repeat itself. Also, ensure that they aren’t still in contact to avoid any rivalries.
5. WHAT ARE HIS VIEWS ON PRE-MARITAL SEX? If he’s okay with it, it’s time to reconsider the relationship!
6. WHAT DOES HE THINK IT MEANS TO LOVE A WOMAN? If love for him is just about physical attraction and nothing deeper, he’s likely a player. It’s best to move on!
7. WILL YOU BE WORKING AFTER MARRIAGE? Some men expect their partners to be stay-at-home wives, wholly dependent on them. It’s crucial to clarify this before marrying to avoid jeopardizing your future.
8. WHAT ACTIONS IN MARRIAGE COULD HE NEVER FORGIVE? Certain men can’t tolerate their wives flirting or having close contact with exes. Discussing these boundaries before marriage is vital to prevent serious issues later on.
9. WILL HE HELP WITH DOMESTIC TASKS? Some men see women purely as homemakers and caregivers. Investigate his attitude toward partnership and sharing chores before making a commitment so you won’t be overwhelmed later.
10. DOES HE PREFER JOINT OR SEPARATE ACCOUNTS? This topic is crucial; financial disagreements are a leading cause of divorce. Discuss how you both handle finances, spending, and saving. If your opinions differ dramatically, this relationship might not be right for you.
11. WILL ANY OF HIS FAMILY MEMBERS LIVE WITH YOU AFTER YOU MARRY? This is essential. Interference from in-laws, especially mothers and siblings, can strain a marriage. Sort this out beforehand.
These are vital questions to pose to your partner before making a vow, as saying “I DO” is a lifelong commitment.
Your experiences in marriage will become part of your life path. The sooner you uncover these important details about him, the better.
May you make wise choices!
Once again, you will choose wisely!
You will not end up with someone else’s partner!
Your marriage will be fulfilling, in Jesus’ name!
Thanks for reading, and please share this with others so they can benefit too. God bless you. Cheers!
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