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Engaging in mindfulness and compassion allows us to gain a clearer perspective on our lives. Rather than getting trapped in unhelpful patterns and reactions, it prompts us to live with more awareness and purpose. Although mindfulness and compassion play a particularly beneficial role in managing ADHD, this approach can be advantageous for everyone.
ADHD is often misunderstood. When accurately diagnosed, it’s recognized as a legitimate medical condition, with genetic factors that are nearly as strong as those influencing height. It disrupts a broad set of skills known as executive function, which includes self-management capabilities like attention, behavior, time, tasks, effort, and emotions.
While everyone experiences emotional fluctuations in life, our executive function skills enable us to handle these challenges effectively. Thus, ADHD frequently leads to increased difficulties with emotional regulation, self-criticism, and stress. It can even hinder the planning skills needed to manage ADHD itself. This ongoing cycle affects various aspects of life, including work, school, relationships, and physical health. Comprehensive and compassionate ADHD care must recognize this extensive impact.
Mindfulness is becoming more integrated into ADHD treatment, though it is sometimes misinterpreted in ways that can turn people with ADHD away. Importantly, mindfulness does not replace any aspect of ADHD treatment. While concentration and impulse control may improve, no single intervention works alone for ADHD. Instead, concentrating on self-regulation and self-awareness through mindfulness — including practices like self-compassion or loving-kindness — represents a foundational change for managing ADHD. Incorporating mindfulness can facilitate adherence to other evidence-based ADHD treatments.
A comprehensive approach to mindfulness in ADHD treatment encompasses much more than meditation alone. The goal is to cultivate traits such as patience, responsiveness, and kindness, making it easier to navigate life’s inevitable ups and downs. A helpful framework for this practice includes three basic supports: mental training, building a community, and a commitment to continuous learning.
A comprehensive approach to mindfulness in ADHD treatment encompasses much more than meditation.
Grasping the Mind’s Mechanisms
Learning is a key part of mindfulness, often connected to the principle of cause and effect. While many things are beyond our control, our thoughts and how we engage with the world significantly shape our experiences. By reflecting on our thoughts and communication through this lens, we remain attuned to our best intentions and core values.
Executive function skills can influence anything that requires management in life. Thus, ADHD can affect work, school, relationships, communication, decision-making, and health routines. Having ADHD is not anyone’s fault, nor is it a moral failure. However, it can lead to feelings of self-blame. Understanding which skills are impacted by ADHD makes it easier to make informed choices that reduce its effects.
Our beliefs and actions always produce consequences, sometimes in subtle ways. For example, if we deny having ADHD, we cannot address it; but if we fully acknowledge it, we can take positive steps forward. Reliance on temporary sources of happiness, like smartphones or shopping, undermines our well-being. Conversely, engaging in a healthy lifestyle or acts of kindness can enhance our chances of thriving. Thus, knowledge propels our journey through life.
This ongoing education may encompass:
- Gaining knowledge about ADHD and exploring evidence-based management techniques, which typically include a mix of educational support, parent training (for families), cognitive behavioral therapy, coaching, and/or medication.
- Emphasizing foundational elements like sleep, exercise, and nutrition for mental clarity, as maintaining these routines can be especially challenging for individuals with ADHD.
- Recognizing the effects of emotional dysregulation and stress linked to ADHD and practicing tools and strategies to navigate these challenges.
- Examining cause and effect’s relationship with well-being, such as understanding how perfectionism and self-criticism worsen suffering or how meditation and gratitude practices enhance happiness.
Cultivating the Mind
Clarifying the purpose of mindfulness practice increases the likelihood of adherence. The objective of meditation is not to achieve a mind completely free of thoughts, though it can help calm the mind. As mentioned, whether or not someone has ADHD, the initial goal is often to foster awareness and patience—far more achievable than total stillness.
The objective of meditation is not to have an empty mind; rather, it aims to help calm or stabilize the mind. Whether with or without ADHD, the primary intention is usually to foster awareness and patience—much more realistic than achieving complete stillness.
Within this framework, we enhance our capacity to observe the present moment. We gain clearer insights into both joyful moments and our struggles. Mindfulness activities don’t have to involve sitting still; practices like mindful eating, yoga, and other movement activities work as well. This connects to an essential definition of mindfulness that holds significant value for individuals with ADHD: striving to perceive our lives with clear and compassionate awareness.
Meditation creates patterns that affect us long-term. Though immediate benefits such as relaxation occur, the larger goal is to develop traits that extend into our daily lives. For instance, simply acknowledging emotions during meditation—rather than reacting with anger or withdrawing—gradually recalibrates our responses outside of formal meditation. This enhanced emotional regulation is beneficial not just for those with ADHD but for everyone. Certain meditation practices also concentrate on fostering attributes like compassion, kindness, or forgiveness.
Meditation creates patterns that shape our long-term behavior. While short-term advantages like relaxation are evident, the broader ambition is to cultivate new traits that permeate everyday life.
To begin, consider:
- Carving out a few minutes regularly for meditation, aiming to enhance self-awareness and patience.
- Trying compassion or loving-kindness practices to address ADHD-related issues like excessive shame, self-criticism, or sensitivity to rejection.
- Incorporating movement activities into your routine, such as walking meditation or yoga.
- Being patient and kind to yourself during this process, as starting and sticking to new routines can be particularly challenging for those with ADHD.
Fostering Connection and Support
Community is another essential component of mindful living. It’s vital to seek out and nurture environments that build emotional resilience and strengthen connections. For those with ADHD, spending time with others who share similar experiences often fosters a greater sense of self-acceptance and belonging. Surrounding ourselves with empathetic and supportive individuals aids in learning, bolstering strength, and ideally, establishing friendships.
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joy, and laughter.
In our busy lives, it’s important to intentionally seek out relationships that enhance our well-being. Challenging individuals can drain our energy and consume our time. Genuine friends empower us to embrace our true selves and support us through our ADHD symptoms, like forgetfulness or sensory overload, without judgment. These valuable connections promote mutual growth and can enhance our mindfulness practices.
Here are some ways to engage with your community:
- Participate in a spiritual or meditation group, or join ADHD-focused organizations like CHADD, ADDA, or ACO.
- Set aside regular time to connect with supportive family members.
- Establish or find shared work or study environments that focus on mindfulness, compassion, and personal growth, which may include accommodations for ADHD.
- Prioritize time with genuine friends and minimize interactions with those who leave you feeling drained, often by cutting back on social media, which can lead to anxiety and negativity.
Creating a Practice that Suits ADHD
Release the idea of perfection, a completely quiet mind, or feeling incapable of meditating. Building a foundation of self-regulation and self-compassion is crucial for effectively navigating the complexities of ADHD. Aim for a mindfulness practice that is sustainable for you, allowing you to remain in touch with your inner wisdom, joy, and compassion even during challenging moments.
Release the need for perfection, a completely quiet mind, or the belief that you cannot meditate.
Dr. Mark Bertin and Dana Crews will host a retreat from October 10-12, 2025, designed for adults dealing with ADHD—whether you experience it yourself, know someone who does, or work in the field. Set in the tranquil Catskill Mountains at the Menla Retreat Center, Held and Whole is a restorative, educational three-day retreat focused on practical, mindfulness-based techniques to improve emotional regulation, deepen self-awareness, and promote authenticity. We look forward to seeing you there!
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