CRUCIAL INSIGHTS FOR MEN
1. Your marriage’s intimacy will decline if you consistently return home late.
2. It’s not the expensive gifts that make your wife see you as attractive; it’s how you connect with her feelings that matters.
3. If your wife senses you might be seeing someone else, she will likely have a hard time being intimate with you. Being faithful enhances your allure and romance.
4. Don’t ignore your wife all day and then expect her to be affectionate later at night.
5. Women are emotional when it comes to intimacy; feeling loved is essential for them. If you hurt her, her desire for intimacy will diminish.
6. If she isn’t in the mood for intimacy, take the time to understand what’s on her mind. However, if she’s just tired, don’t take it personally. How you treat her today influences tomorrow’s intimacy.
7. If you feel entitled to intimacy, know that it means you’ve shifted from genuine closeness to coercive lovemaking. Intimacy should be mutual and celebrated, not demanded.
8. Often, she may prefer your comforting arms over sexual intimacy; sometimes all she needs is a hug.
CRUCIAL INSIGHTS FOR WOMEN
1. Men find it easier to be intimate when the atmosphere is peaceful. If you bring unrest, he may struggle to connect with you physically.
2. Accusing a faithful man of infidelity can deeply hurt him. Such accusations can hinder his closeness with you as he feels wounded. Avoid false accusations.
3. A stressed man may have difficulties with his sexual performance, as his mind influences his body. Help him with his concerns, and he will see you as attractive.
4. Men find it difficult to feel romantic towards a partner who insults or belittles them.
5. Regardless of how appealing your appearance is, a man’s desire is often influenced more by your attitude.
6. Men appreciate when their wives take initiative in intimacy. Don’t be passive; take him out on dates, flirt, and show him your affection.
7. A man’s ego matters in intimacy; compliment how much you enjoy being intimate with him. If you ridicule his performance, he may feel hurt and withdraw.
8. If there are issues affecting your desire for intimacy, communicate openly, rather than remain aloof. Silent treatment can lead to negative feelings and long-term damage to your relationship’s intimacy.