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Let’s begin with a tale…
Tola was the woman every man admired — ambitious, prayerful, and radiantly beautiful. She had dated several men who seemed perfect on paper: handsome, wealthy, and “spiritually deep.” Yet, something always felt off — she couldn’t find serenity.
Then came David. He wasn’t flashy or a silver-tongued charmer. However, his presence made her feel secure. He honored her boundaries, cherished her aspirations, and treated her like royalty even when no one was observing.
It wasn’t love at first sight — rather, love that blossomed from trust.
That’s the kind of man worth marrying.
Here are 10 indicators he’s that kind of man: 👇
1️⃣ He Brings You Calm, Not Pressure
If you feel like you’re constantly proving your worth or walking on eggshells, that’s not love — that’s emotional drain.
A good man should soothe your spirit, not cloud it. His presence should feel like a sanctuary, not a battlefield.
2️⃣ He Appreciates You for Who You Are, Not What You Accomplish
He’s not just impressed by your looks or achievements.
He cherishes your joy, your imperfections, and your authenticity.
He values you for who you are — not for your makeup, wealth, or social standing.
3️⃣ He Respects Your Limits
A man who genuinely loves you won’t push you to overstep your moral or spiritual beliefs.
He values your principles because he recognizes your worth in the eyes of God.
Respect is the cornerstone of true intimacy.
4️⃣ He’s Emotionally Stable
He doesn’t retreat during disagreements or shut down during challenging discussions.
Instead, he listens, apologizes, and learns.
Maturity means managing differences with wisdom and composure, not perfection.
5️⃣ He’s Loyal Even When No One Is Around
You shouldn’t have to check his messages or doubt his commitment.
His integrity shines even when you’re not present.
A trustworthy man protects your heart as if it were his own.
6️⃣ He Supports Your Goals
The right partner won’t clip your wings; he’ll encourage your flight.
He’ll celebrate your growth, pray for your aspirations, and never feel threatened by your accomplishments.
Marriage is a joint effort, not a competition.
7️⃣ He’s Kind, Beyond Just Romantic Gestures
Romance can be learned, but kindness comes from the heart.
Pay attention to how he treats servers, cleaners, and those who cannot repay him.
A kind man won’t turn cruel after marriage.
8️⃣ He’s Open to Accountability
A godly man has mentors or friends who can correct him — someone he respects.
If he’s unwilling to be corrected now, living with him later will be difficult.
9️⃣ He Respects God in His Private Life
If he fears God, you’re already on the path to peace.
A man who prays, forgives, and adheres to God’s teachings will love you in a Christ-like manner.
Don’t just inquire, “Does he attend church?” — ask, “Does he walk with God?”
🔟 He’s Steady — His Actions Align with His Words
He doesn’t declare “I love you” one day and vanish the next.
Consistency is the hallmark of true love.
If his character is stable, he manages money well, and is reliable with his promises — he’s a treasure worth keeping.
💡 Key Takeaway:
Don’t marry a man just because you’re tired of waiting — choose him because you’ve discovered peace, purpose, and partnership in his company.
Marriage isn’t about being perfect; it’s about having a shared direction.
If he’s progressing in the right direction with God, you can grow together for a lifetime.
✅Tag a sister who might need this reminder.
You won’t lack in marriage, in Jesus’ name.
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