If you’re navigating Dry January, you’ve probably noticed that cravings don’t politely schedule themselves around your goals. They show up uninvited—after a stressful meeting, during family dinners, or when you’re just trying to unwind on a Tuesday night. That’s why we created this guide to alcohol-free drinks for Dry January cravings. The good news? Understanding what’s actually driving those cravings gives you real power to address them at their source.
Drawing on neuroscience research and insights from This Naked Mind founder Annie Grace, whose evidence-based approach has helped millions worldwide, we’ve developed these alcohol-free drinks specifically designed to address the real reasons you’re reaching for a drink—whether that’s stress, habit, social anxiety, or something else entirely. Because here’s what we know from working with thousands of people: it’s rarely about the alcohol itself. It’s about how you want to feel.
TLDR
- Cravings usually point to a need (relief, comfort, connection, a pause)—not a personal failure.
- Alcohol can ramp up stress biology (including cortisol) and make the “relief” feel shorter and messier over time.
- These 5 drinks are designed to match the moment your brain is asking for: relaxation, ritual, confidence, edge, or escape.
- Want deeper support beyond the sip? Join our free 5-day Alcohol Reset Challenge (Jan 19–23).
Quick safety note: If you’ve been drinking heavily every day, suddenly stopping can be dangerous for some people. If you’re unsure, talk with a medical professional before quitting.
Jump to Your Craving Trigger:
Cherry Chamomile Chiller: For Stress-Triggered Cravings

We reach for alcohol when we’re stressed because we’ve been told it relaxes us. But that’s the ultimate oxymoron because alcohol increases cortisol, your body’s primary stress hormone. Research published by the National Institutes of Health found that alcohol consumption stimulates cortisol secretion, and in chronic drinkers, this can create a stress cycle rather than relieving it.
As Annie Grace explains in This Naked Mind, “We think alcohol relaxes us, but it actually puts our body into a state of stress. What we’re experiencing as ‘relaxation’ is often just the temporary relief from the mini-withdrawal we’ve been experiencing since our last drink.” As she puts it: “Real relaxation is having no distress. It is a feeling you can never achieve with a drug.”
The Cherry Chamomile Chiller takes a different approach. Chamomile has been shown to reduce anxiety through its compound apigenin, which binds to GABA receptors in the brain (the same receptors alcohol affects, but without the negative consequences). Tart cherry juice naturally contains melatonin and tryptophan, supporting your body’s actual relaxation response rather than disrupting it.
Ingredients for Cherry Chamomile Chiller
- 6 oz brewed chamomile tea, chilled
- 3 oz tart cherry juice (100% juice, no added sugar)
- 1 oz fresh lemon juice
- 1 tsp raw honey (optional)
- Fresh mint leaves
- Ice
- Sparkling water to top (about 2 oz)
Instructions
- Brew chamomile tea using two tea bags and let steep for 5-7 minutes for maximum potency
- Chill the tea completely (you can prepare this ahead and keep it refrigerated)
- In a tall glass filled with ice, combine the chilled chamomile tea, tart cherry juice, and lemon juice
- Stir in honey if desired
- Top with sparkling water
- Garnish with fresh mint leaves (gently clap them between your hands first to release the oils)
- Sip slowly, giving your nervous system time to register the actual calming compounds
Other Relaxation Tips for Dry January
The Cherry Chamomile Chiller addresses the chemical side of stress, but here are additional strategies that work with your nervous system:
Box breathing while you sip: Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4, exhale for 4, hold for 4. This activates your parasympathetic nervous system—your body’s natural “calm down” mechanism.
Create a relaxation ritual: Use the same glass, the same time, the same cozy spot. Your brain loves patterns and will start associating this new ritual with relaxation, replacing the old alcohol-based one.
Progressive muscle relaxation: Starting with your toes and moving up, tense each muscle group for 5 seconds, then release. By the time you reach your shoulders, your Cherry Chamomile Chiller will be ready and your body genuinely relaxed.
Journal before you sip: Spend 3 minutes writing down what’s stressing you out. Research shows this “brain dump” significantly reduces stress-related cortisol, making your alcohol-free drink even more effective.
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Habit Halter: For Routine-Based Cravings
Sometimes you’re not craving alcohol—you’re craving the comfort of your routine. Your brain has learned: dinner ends, wine appears. Workday finishes, beer happens. Before bed, a nightcap signals sleep time. These neural pathways are strong, but they’re also adaptable.
Your takeaway? You don’t have to abandon the routine. You just need to swap what’s in your glass. Your brain responds to the ritual itself—the same glass, the same chair, the same transition moment—not necessarily the alcohol. We’re giving you three options to maintain your routine while changing your relationship with alcohol: a wine alternative for dinner, a beer alternative for unwinding, and a nightcap alternative for evening wind-down.

Wine Alternative: Sunset Sipper
This deep, complex drink mimics the tannins and depth of red wine while providing actual relaxation benefits.
Ingredients:
- 4 oz tart cherry juice
- 2 oz brewed black tea (cooled)
- 1 oz Concord grape juice
- Splash of balsamic vinegar (yes, really—it adds that tannic bite)
- Ice
- Optional: sprig of rosemary
Instructions:
- Brew black tea strong (two bags) and let cool
- In your wine glass (yes, use your actual wine glass), combine cherry juice, black tea, and grape juice over ice
- Add just 1/4 teaspoon of quality balsamic vinegar and stir
- Garnish with rosemary if desired
- Sip slowly, letting the complex flavors develop

Beer Alternative: Crisp Hop Water
If you’re used to reaching for a beer after work, hop water delivers that bitter, satisfying finish without the alcohol or calories.
Ingredients:
- 12 oz sparkling water (well-chilled)
- 1/2 tsp hop extract or 2-3 hop pellets (available at homebrew stores)
- Squeeze of lime
- Pinch of salt (enhances the bitter notes)
Instructions:
- If using hop pellets, steep them in 2 oz of hot water for 5 minutes, then strain and chill
- Add hop-infused water (or hop extract) to sparkling water
- Add lime juice and salt
- Pour into your usual beer glass
- Drink cold for maximum refreshment
Can’t find hop extract? Try Athletic Brewing, HOPWTR, or H2OPS for ready-made options that are widely available.

Nightcap Alternative: Cherry Manhattan (Alcohol-Free)
This sophisticated sipper signals to your brain that the day is ending, without disrupting your sleep the way alcohol does.
Ingredients:
- 3 oz cold brew coffee (decaf if sensitive to caffeine)
- 1 oz tart cherry juice
- 1/2 oz maple syrup
- 2 dashes of bitters (most bitters contain trace alcohol but less than vanilla extract)
- Orange peel
- Ice
- Luxardo cherry for garnish
Instructions:
- In a mixing glass with ice, combine cold brew, cherry juice, maple syrup, and bitters
- Stir for 30 seconds until well-chilled
- Strain into a coupe or rocks glass
- Express orange peel oils over the drink, then add as garnish
- Add Luxardo cherry
- Sip slowly as your end-of-day ritual
Other Habit-Halting Tips
Stack your new habit onto the old trigger: When the workday ends, immediately make your Hop Water before checking your phone or turning on the TV. When dinner wraps up, pour your Sunset Sipper before clearing dishes. You’re not fighting the trigger—you’re redirecting it.
Use the same vessels: This is crucial. Drink your Sunset Sipper from your wine glass. Pour your Hop Water into your beer glass. Serve your Cherry Manhattan in the coupe you used for cocktails. Your brain recognizes these cues and fires the same “transition time” neurons, minus the alcohol.
Time it consistently: If you always had wine at 7 PM, make your Sunset Sipper at 7 PM. Consistency strengthens the new neural pathway faster than varying your timing.
Add a complementary micro-habit: Pair your new drink with something sensory—light a specific candle, play a particular playlist, sit in your favorite spot. These additional cues reinforce the new routine and make it feel complete.
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Social Sling: For Social Anxiety Cravings

One of our biggest craving triggers is socializing, or even just thinking about socializing. Somehow we’ve convinced ourselves that we can’t hang with our crew if there isn’t booze on board. That’s a load of bull. As Annie Grace notes: “Our society not only encourages drinking—it takes issue with people who don’t drink.”
Here’s a secret: if you don’t announce to your friends that you aren’t drinking, most won’t ever know. Almost every drink out there has a non-alcoholic version now. Non-alcoholic beers like Guinness 0.0, Heineken 0.0, or Athletic Brewing can even be found on tap at some places. NA wines are widely available, and mocktails abound.
The key to social confidence isn’t what’s in your glass—it’s knowing you’re showing up as your authentic self. When you’re alcohol-free, you’re funnier because you’re actually present for the jokes. You’re more engaging because your brain isn’t working through a depressant. You’re more memorable because, well, you’ll actually remember the conversation tomorrow.
Here’s our take on a Singapore Sling—tropical, complex, and impressive enough that nobody questions what you’re drinking.
Ingredients for Alcohol-Free Social Sling
- 2 oz pineapple juice
- 1 oz fresh lime juice
- 1 oz tart cherry juice (for that red hue and depth)
- 1/2 oz pomegranate juice
- 1/2 oz simple syrup (adjust to taste)
- 2 oz sparkling water
- 2 dashes Angostura bitters
- Fresh pineapple wedge and cherry for garnish
- Ice
Instructions
- Fill a tall glass (Collins or highball) with ice
- Add pineapple juice, lime juice, cherry juice, pomegranate juice, and simple syrup
- Stir well to combine
- Top with sparkling water
- Add bitters
- Garnish dramatically with pineapple wedge and cherry
- Add a fun straw if you’re feeling festive
- Sip confidently
Other Tips for Socializing Alcohol-Free
Arrive with your drink already in hand: Hit the bar first, get your NA beer or mocktail immediately, and then join your group. Walking into a social situation already holding a drink eliminates 90% of the “what are you drinking?” questions.
Master the redirect: If someone asks why you’re not drinking, you don’t owe them your life story. Simple redirects work: “I’m good with this,” “I’m trying something new,” or “I’ve got an early morning.” Then immediately ask them a question about themselves. People love talking about themselves more than interrogating your choices.
Be strategic about where you socialize: Coffee shops, hike-and-hangouts, morning workouts, brunch spots, bowling alleys, game nights—there are endless social settings where alcohol isn’t the default. Sometimes changing the venue changes everything.
Find your one person: In any social group, there’s usually at least one other person who’s not drinking heavily or is nursing one drink all night. Connect with them. You’ll probably have better conversations anyway.
Remember: you’re not missing out, you’re opting out: There’s a difference. Missing out implies something desirable is happening without you. Opting out means you’re making a choice that serves you better. Reframe it in your mind, and your confidence shifts.
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Alcohol Reset Challenge: Mindset Shifts That Last
Alcohol-free drinks are fantastic tools, but a mindset shift is even more effective in changing your relationship with alcohol for good. These drinks address the surface-level craving, but understanding what’s happening in your brain addresses the root cause.
Join us for our free 5-Day Alcohol Reset Challenge, January 19-23, 2026.
Over five days, you’ll discover:
- Why your brain craves alcohol (and it’s not what you think)
- The ACT technique for handling urges in real-time
- How to navigate social situations with confidence
- Why willpower fails and what works instead
- How to build sustainable change that feels natural, not restrictive
This isn’t about white-knuckling through cravings. It’s about understanding your brain so well that the cravings lose their power. And it’s completely free.
Register for the Free 5-Day Alcohol Reset Challenge →
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Deal Derailer: For Professional Setting Cravings

Have you been fed the lie that deals are made at the bar? That to be successful in business you need to drink something that obliterates your decision-making skills and tanks your productivity for the next day?
Yeah, I was fed that lie too.
What’s funny is that I couldn’t have imagined the success I found professionally while alcohol-free when I was still drinking. Turns out, being the sharpest person in the room gives you a competitive edge. You remember details others miss. You read body language more accurately. You negotiate better because your executive function is fully online. And the next morning? You’re answering emails while your colleagues are nursing hangovers.
Here’s our take on a Dark and Stormy that packs flavor but pulls back on booze—because the real power move is showing up fully present.
Ingredients for the Light Dark and Stormy
- 4 oz ginger beer (the spicier, the better—try Fever Tree or Q Ginger Beer)
- 2 oz cold brew coffee (for that dark, complex flavor)
- 1 oz fresh lime juice
- 1/2 oz maple syrup
- Fresh ginger slice
- Lime wheel
- Ice
Instructions
- Fill a copper mug or highball glass with ice (copper mug keeps it colder longer)
- Add cold brew coffee, lime juice, and maple syrup
- Stir to combine
- Top with ginger beer
- Garnish with fresh ginger slice and lime wheel
- The ginger should create a nice spicy bite similar to the rum burn in a traditional Dark and Stormy
Tips for Conducting Business Alcohol-Free
Order decisively: Don’t apologize or explain. Order your NA option with the same confidence you’d order a scotch. “I’ll have the ginger beer” or “Tonic with lime” or “Do you have any Athletic Brewing on tap?” Confidence is contagious; hesitation invites questions.
Shift the venue when you can: Suggest coffee meetings, breakfast meetings, or lunch at places known for food rather than drinks. Some of the best business conversations happen over good coffee at 8 AM when everyone’s sharp, not over drinks at 8 PM when everyone’s compromised.
Let others drink: You don’t need to evangelize. If your colleagues or clients want to drink, that’s their choice. Your job is to stay sharp, read the room, and capitalize on your competitive advantage.
Use your clear head strategically: While others are three drinks in and getting loose with information, you’re taking mental notes. While they’re getting emotional or aggressive in negotiations, you’re staying calm and strategic. This is your edge.
The next-day follow-up: Send a detailed recap email the next morning while everyone else is recovering. Include specifics from the conversation they might not fully remember. This positions you as the reliable, sharp professional who has their act together.
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Family Festivities: For Family Event Cravings

Oh, family. They are known to drive people to drink, to pressure them to drink, and to badger them about their drinking. Sometimes all three in the same night!
Family events and drinking can be intimately tied together, but it’s not like we signed a contract promising to uphold a tradition that brings us down. So instead of letting family drive you to drink, drive yourself to the store and pick up the ingredients you need for a drink that will refresh you—or at least give you something to sip on rather than opening your mouth and stepping into THAT discussion again.
For this NA take on a classic cocktail, we decided to go with a drink named after a book that certainly saw its own dysfunctional family dynamics: The Great Gatsby. As F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote: “First you take a drink, then the drink takes a drink, then the drink takes you.”
Ingredients for Alcohol-Free Great Gatsby
- 2 oz white grape juice
- 1 oz fresh lemon juice
- 3/4 oz lavender simple syrup (recipe below)
- 3 oz sparkling water or champagne alternative like Gruvi or Surely
- Fresh lavender sprig
- Lemon twist
- Ice
For Lavender Simple Syrup:
- 1/2 cup water
- 1/2 cup sugar
- 2 tbsp culinary lavender
Instructions
Making the Lavender Simple Syrup:
- Combine water and sugar in a small saucepan
- Heat until sugar dissolves completely
- Remove from heat and add lavender
- Steep for 30 minutes
- Strain and store in the refrigerator (keeps for 2 weeks)
Making the Gatsby:
- In a shaker with ice, combine white grape juice, lemon juice, and lavender syrup
- Shake well until very cold
- Strain into a champagne flute or coupe
- Top with sparkling water or NA champagne
- Garnish with fresh lavender sprig and lemon twist
- Sip elegantly while navigating family dynamics
Tips for Dealing with Family Alcohol-Free
Have your one-liner ready: Family members will ask. They always do. Have a simple, friendly response that doesn’t invite debate: “I’m taking a break and feeling great,” “I’m trying something new this month,” or “I’m good with this, thanks.” Then change the subject immediately.
Enlist an ally: Find one family member who gets it—or at least respects boundaries—and stick near them. They can run interference when Uncle Jerry starts his “just one drink” campaign.
Bring your own fancy drinks: Show up with ingredients for your Gatsby or a few bottles of quality NA options. This serves two purposes: you control what you’re drinking, and you look generous and festive rather than restrictive and no-fun.
Give yourself permission to leave early: You don’t have to stay for the whole event. Set a time limit beforehand, and when you hit it, gracefully exit. Your boundaries are more important than Aunt Martha’s feelings about you missing dessert.
Create physical space when needed: When the conversation gets heated or uncomfortable, excuse yourself. “I’m going to help in the kitchen,” “I need some air,” or “I’m going to check on the kids” are all socially acceptable ways to remove yourself from a triggering situation.
Remember why you’re doing this: Family gatherings can be emotionally charged. Keep your “why” front and center. Maybe it’s showing up as a present parent, protecting your mental health, or breaking a generational cycle. Whatever it is, let it anchor you when things get tough.
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Cravings Don’t Last—But Your Reasons Do
These alcohol-free drinks for Dry January cravings are a great starting point, but they’re just tools in a larger toolkit. The real transformation happens when you understand that cravings are temporary signals, not permanent truths. They peak within 15-20 minutes and then fade, whether you give in to them or not.
The great thing about cravings is that they don’t last, and they get weaker with time. Each time you ride one out—armed with one of these drinks, the breathing exercises, or simply the knowledge of what’s actually happening in your brain—you’re rewiring your neural pathways. You’re teaching your brain that you don’t need alcohol to feel relaxed, social, confident, or comfortable.
And here’s the truth that makes that easier: as Annie Grace puts it, “The reality, when the sexy advertisements have been stripped away, is that the actual product is ethanol. It is a horrible-tasting, addictive poison. So we sweeten it with sugar and flavoring or process it to make it more palatable.” Once you see it clearly, the pull weakens.
We have a treasure trove of other resources here at This Naked Mind, all designed to help you get through this transition and emerge empowered on the other side. From our free 5-Day Alcohol Reset Challenge to The Alcohol Experiment—our comprehensive 30-day program that dives deep into the science and psychology of alcohol—we’re here to support you until you’re strong enough to stand on your own.
You’re not giving anything up. You’re gaining everything back—your sleep, your energy, your presence, your authentic self. The drinks in this guide help you navigate the transition. The mindset shift helps you never want to go back.
About Annie Grace
Annie Grace is the author and founder of This Naked Mind and creator of The Alcohol Experiment. Her work blends neuroscience, psychology, and compassionate habit change to help people transform their relationship with alcohol and, more importantly, with themselves. This Naked Mind is not here to shame your choices—we’re here to help you get curious about the beliefs behind them so you can build a life you don’t need to numb.
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