For many individuals, the journey to reduce alcohol consumption begins with a straightforward aim—perhaps for health or to set a good example for their children. Yet, what happens when that seemingly easy target morphs into a challenging loop of monitoring, resisting temptations, and ultimately succumbing? That’s precisely the situation Sarah found herself in. She didn’t intend to quit drinking entirely—just to find a healthier balance. What she learned, however, transformed her life entirely.
I Thought I Just Needed a Few Alcohol-Free Days
I was fortunate to have wonderful parents who created a joyful home for me, but my dad struggled with heavy drinking, leaving me with some difficult memories. Still, alcohol was a constant presence in my life—it wasn’t something to question, just a part of our routine.
As a teenager, I enjoyed drinking. It felt fun and social. However, I quickly learned that hangovers were severe. I would spend the entire next day feeling sick, struggling with a throbbing headache, vowing never to do it again.
Fast forward to adulthood—I continued to drink regularly while attempting to cut back. I’d successfully moderate for a period, but there were times when I’d overindulge and deeply regret it. One of my most regrettable moments happened after a work event; I ended up sick on the way home, with kids crying when they saw me. That memory stuck with me.
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The Cycle of Trying and Failing to Cut Back
I wasn’t ready to give up alcohol entirely. I just craved a break. I aimed for three alcohol-free days a week. I kept a diary to track my progress. Then, I downloaded an app. Occasionally, I managed two days without drinking, but three was a rare achievement.
Instead of feeling empowered, I constantly felt like I was at war with myself. Although I aimed to drink less, it resembled a losing battle week after week. Guilt and frustration consumed me. I simply wanted to enjoy life without feeling deprived.
How One Book Changed Everything
Then, I stumbled upon a Facebook post about “This Naked Mind.” I immediately bought the audiobook. It took weeks to arrive, but once it did, I finished it within three days. I never anticipated its profound impact.
Initially, my goal was moderation—just to drink less and enjoy those alcohol-free days. But something shifted. After I completed the book, I had a glass of wine, and… it didn’t feel right. The following day, I abstained from drinking altogether. When Friday night arrived, I chose not to drink. That had never happened before.
I tried a couple of glasses that weekend, and again, it just felt wrong. That was my last drink. I haven’t wanted alcohol since, and that was over 18 months ago.
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Life After Alcohol Is So Much Better Than I Imagined
Today, I can genuinely say everything has improved. My energy levels are higher, I’m sleeping more soundly, and my clothes fit better as I’m no longer bloated. I’ve shed those extra kilos I used to chase. My endometriosis pain has diminished significantly. I even play music now—specifically the harmonica—and it feels incredible to truly experience the music.
But the greatest change? I’m fully present. For my kids, for myself, for life as a whole.
I’m saving money by not buying alcohol. I’m no longer wasting weekends nursing hangovers. I’ve joined a swim squad, and I awaken each morning with purpose. I’ve confronted emotions I used to numb with wine. I’ve come to realize that I genuinely like who I am now.
Looking Back, I Wish I Had Known This Sooner
If I could speak to my past self, I’d say: “One day, you will find out what it feels like to live without alcohol, and trust me, you will cherish it! This path you’re on regarding alcohol is perfectly valid; try not to feel ashamed or anxious because it will be alright. You won’t miss it when the time comes for you to make the decision to stop. Life will be much richer without alcohol.” Back then, I felt trapped. I assumed the cycle of trying to drink less alcohol would never end.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. You shouldn’t feel ashamed. You shouldn’t have to keep battling. You don’t have to miss out. In fact, you’ll gain so much more.
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