1. If you frequently return home late, your marital closeness will take a hit.
2. Your wife doesn’t view you as romantic because you shower her with pricey gifts; she sees romance in how well you connect with her feelings.
3. If she suspects you’re involved with another woman, it will be hard for her to feel intimate with you. Loyalty is essential for romance.
4. Don’t ignore your wife all day and then expect her to feel aroused for you in the evening.
5. Women express their love through emotions; feeling cherished is crucial for them. If you hurt her, she won’t feel inclined to be intimate.
6. If she seems uninterested in intimacy tonight, check in to see if something’s bothering her. However, if she’s simply tired or not in the mood, don’t take it to heart. How you treat her today will shape your intimate moments tomorrow.
7. If you find yourself demanding intimacy, be aware that this reflects a lack of true intimacy and may come off as coercive. Intimacy should be a cherished experience, not something that’s required.
8. Sometimes, what she desires from you isn’t physical intimacy but just your comforting embrace and cuddling.