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Have you ever wanted to learn the secret to a joyful and lasting marriage?
One of the most common inquiries we receive is, “How can we ensure our marriage thrives?”
Achieving marital success is not a matter of chance. A fulfilling marriage is a deliberate choice. Your marriage reflects your efforts; the more you invest in it, the more rewarding it becomes.
We’ve gathered some of the most effective and time-tested principles for couples to embrace. While “rules” might sound strict, think of them instead as helpful guidelines.
1. PRAY TOGETHER.
Sharing prayers deepens your peace as a couple. Nothing is secured without prayer. To experience the best in life, spiritual connection is essential. A couple that prays together remains united.
Dedicate time daily to pray alongside your partner.
My spouse and I start our mornings with prayer, asking for strength for the day ahead. This practice brings us closer as we express care for one another.
Find a time that suits you both—perhaps right before bedtime. After holding hands in prayer, it’s hard to go to sleep upset.
Pray and read scripture together, keeping the family altar sacred. A couple that genuinely prays together thrives together.
2. To STAY HAPPILY MARRIED, always be eager to LEARN about marriage and family life through Scripture and resources from qualified Christian counselors. Seek WISDOM. A successful marriage requires knowledge.
Invest in your relationship, making it the dream marriage you envision.
Purchase books and attend seminars focused on marriage. Numerous inspiring titles can enrich your marital journey.
3. Avoid trying to win every disagreement. YOUR HOME IS NOT A COURTROOM. Choose joy over being right. Don’t be defensive; if you realize you were wrong, admit it.
4. Cultivate Godly Values. Your character shapes your marriage. A relationship can’t grow better than the individuals within it. Negative traits can corrupt a marriage and must be eliminated.
To improve your marriage, aim for personal growth. A peaceful and supportive marriage requires both partners to be understanding and affectionate. Remember, your relationship reflects your efforts.
Create a home filled with laughter and harmony.
5. Master the art of forgiveness.
One essential rule for happiness in marriage is the ability to forgive.
FORGIVENESS IS ESSENTIAL FOR A JOYFUL HOME. A thriving marriage consists of two individuals who forgive each other. If you desire a loving and lasting relationship, forgiving one another is indispensable.
Without forgiveness, marriage struggles to survive.
6. Address anger constructively. Even in anger, avoid saying things you’ll regret. Sidestep negative confrontations. If arguments arise, express love. Manage your emotions and refrain from verbal abuse.
Many couples end their marriages over uncontrolled anger.
Anger can severely undermine a relationship. If anger is a challenge for you, seek help to overcome it, preventing it from harming your happiness together. Never let both partners be angry simultaneously, and never raise your voices at one another.
7. Communicate effectively. Strong communication forms the backbone of any relationship, especially marriage. It’s vital for a successful partnership. Good communication means striving to find compromises and truly listening to each other. Discuss your relationships, families, finances, parenting, and daily tasks. It’s not just about talking; it’s about genuinely engaging with your partner’s thoughts and feelings to reach shared solutions.
8. Never compare your spouse to anyone else, living or deceased. Treat your partner as exceptional, and celebrate one another.
9. EXPRESS THANKS AND APPRECIATE YOUR SPOUSE.
Showing gratitude releases oxytocin, the “love hormone,” fostering a deeper emotional connection. Appreciation forms a crucial foundation for a robust marriage.
By incorporating gratitude into daily interactions, you can enhance your relationship.
10. Identify and speak your partner’s Love Language. Love languages refer to how individuals prefer to express and receive love, encompassing acts like quality time, words of affirmation, gestures of kindness, assistance with chores, gift-giving, and physical touch. Offer your spouse love generously in their preferred manner.
11. Couples that enjoy activities together stay strong together. Find a sport or hobby you both love and prioritize it in your lives. Engage in activities like dancing, exercising, or playing games—whatever brings you joy as a duo.
12. Avoid Pride, an adversary of marriage. Stay humble. Acknowledging mistakes and apologizing is a sign of strength, not weakness. When you err, communicate openly and request forgiveness. Never go to bed upset; don’t allow negativity to enter your relationship.
13. If you need to correct your spouse, do so with kindness. Your words impact your partner’s life significantly. Never talk down to them or raise your voice. Avoid public correction; instead, approach it gently and ensure they feel valued.
14. Don’t resurrect past errors. Leave past grievances behind. Forgive and forget.
15. Marriage is teamwork. Support one another and face challenges together. Fight together for shared goals, never letting your spouse face struggles alone. Two are indeed better than one.
16. Frequently say phrases like I LOVE YOU, I VALUE YOU, THANK YOU, YOU ARE A BLESSING, YOU ARE AMAZING, YOU ARE SMART, etc.
17. Build your relationship, home, and family on PRAYER AND SCRIPTURE, and you will find fulfillment. Your marriage is your primary calling; protect it diligently. Pray together, study faith together, and serve in your community to ward off negativity.
18. Steer clear of financial disputes. Instead of fighting over money matters, present your financial concerns to God in prayer. Trust Him with your finances. Prayer can help eliminate financial struggles. Ask God for insights that can transform your financial situation.
Rather than arguing about financial pressures, turn to prayer. Everything will work out.
19. KEEP DIVORCE OFF THE TABLE.
Avoid using the term *Divorce* in arguments. Do not intimidate or manipulate your partner; this leads to emotional harm. Never mention divorce as a threat. Divorce lacks dignity. Resolve to foster a lasting marriage. Remember that love endures. Make a commitment to a long-term partnership—God disapproves of divorce.
20. MAKE LOVE OFTEN.
Intimacy in a marriage should be frequent, not scheduled. Intimacy contributes significantly to physical health; everyone benefits from regular activity. The more intimate you are, the healthier both your relationship and your lives become.
Although these principles may seem straightforward, many couples struggle because they neglect to implement them.
You will thrive in your marriage in Jesus’ name.
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